Living in dormitory together with other cadets is enjoyable. Nevertheless, this condition does not always happen because sometimes, there is difference of opinion that triggers fight and conflict among cadets. When this happens, pilot school parties will punish their cadets as firm as possible. Even, if cadets’ actions cannot be tolerated anymore, they can drop out those cadets. Anyway, if you get involved in conflict with other cadets and they invite you to fight, what should you do? Should you fight with them? Of course, you should not do it because it just harms you. You should do things like mentioned below:
Ignore their invitation
Yup, this is a good way to avoid getting serious problem at last. Don’t listen to all their opinions or insultings. Stay cool and continue learning as usual. What if they force you to fight? Remain ignoring their invitation and staying cool. If you don’t do anything, they will stop disturbing you. Make sure that you apologize to them if you are guilty. If you are in true side, ignore them and continue your routine.
Explain that fighting is not a good thing
This way needs to be done if they want to make peace and listen to you. Explain what is going on so they know what happens. Also explain that fighting is not a good thing because there are many solutions to solve confict. Make sure that you give good explanation by using good words. For example, if conflict happens because of miscommunication, tell them your opinion and their opinion. Let them know what you guess and understand so they know what you think and vice versa. It is also better to give or show real proofs that you are not guilty so they don’t disturb you anymore.
In other hand, if you hide the truth, you will get disadvantages. They will continue disturbing you and make you emotion at last. The worst part is you will fight with them and then get punishment from pilot school parties. If you are guilty, of course you will get serious punishment or even be dropped out from flight school.
Report to pilot school staffs
If you are already patient or if you do your best to avoid getting conflict with them but they continue distrurbing and insulting you, you are highly recommended to report to pilot school staffs as soon as possible. Tell what is going on and then let flight school staffs take necessary actions. If you have to meet with them, don’t let emotion take over your mind. Stay cool and give clear explanation. If you are not guilty, don’t be afraid. What if you get threat? Repot this to pilot school staffs so other cadets can be punished as soon as possible. If staffs ask you to forgive them, do it although you still feel disappointed and disadvantaged. Remember that peace is a good thing.
Hopefully, by ignoring their invitation to fight, explaining them that fighting is not a good thing, and reporting to pilot school staffs, you can avoid getting involved in conflict and get your peace life back.